Admit it fellas, when we think of Eve in the Garden of
Eden, we imagine that she was pretty hot, yes or yes? I’ll even venture to say that she was the
hottest, most beautiful person Adam had ever seen.
Many of you are saying, “Well, duh, Matt, she was also
the ONLY one he had ever seen.”
"Fall of Man" by Hendrik Goltzius Eve was the apple of Adam's eye. Also, what's that cat doing there? |
Jason Evert, renowned author and speaker of chastity,
once wrote in his 51-page book Pure Manhood something that hasn’t left me alone and has changed my view,
literally, on women ever since. He said,
“What if the only woman you ever saw naked was your bride?”
Wow.
One (of the many) reasons I don’t want to watch porn
today or even look longer than I need to at women in public is because I don’t
want to think of any other person when I hang around my girlfriend, Mimi. I don’t want any other image of anyone else
to fly around in my head when I see her and hold her. Consequently, I
see her today as the most beautiful person I had ever laid eyes on.
“Well, duh, Matt, she’s the ONLY person you ever let
yourself see.”
I’m OK with that.
In fact, line her up with all other women in the world, and I’d still pick her.
Truth be told, I stopped my habitual viewing of porn more
than a year ago when I was a single guy not dating anyone. What motivated me then?
One of the most interesting books I've ever read. |
He wasn’t just talking to older men. In fact, he noted he’s seen more and more men
ages 18-28 were coming to his office for Viagra, Cialis, and Levitra. You know what he said was the common
denominator among all of them? “Overuse
of pornography” and that they “find it difficult to get aroused by real women.”
Find it difficult to get aroused by a real woman?! F that.
Don’t we men want to be the best in bed our wives have ever had, yes or
yes? That was it for me. I do plan on being the best my wife has ever
had, and if I can do anything about it, erectile dysfunction is not going to
happen to me.
In fact, I bet the sex Adam and Eve experienced was the
best they had ever had.
And maybe, yes, it was because it was the ONLY sex they
had ever had.
Amén.
keeps those posts coming bro! Excellent article! Posted it to my facebook page! Understanding, merciful, and healing, just what we all need!
ReplyDeleteGod Bless,
Jimmy
Appreciate it man.
ReplyDeleteHow could the feminist movement possibly be hurting men?
ReplyDeleteI can't tell if you're being serious or not. If you are, I'd gladly let you know.
DeleteI'm totally going to start following your blog. Its not everyday you hear folks out here who believe what you believe and realize what you realize! Keep doing your doing, speak the truth and share it! :)
ReplyDeleteThanks! I appreciate the affirmation. I see you started your blog. Keep at it!
DeletePeace and joy,
Matt