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Saturday, April 7, 2012

What if sex...

The other week I listened to Matthew Kelly talk about Game Changers---what-if questions that would change the game (i.e. life) completely.

Here's my game changer that keeps coming up in my head:

What if sex was about serving your partner and not about "getting yours"?


  1. This is a great question - one that really needs to be put to the world - and asked of our hearts, too.

    Thanks for sharing so much of yourself on this blog, Matt. I've been mulling over some thoughts about sex in the past few months (a little different - although I feel the call to marriage with my boyfriend, I'm suddenly sad and a teensy bit afraid of saying goodbye to virginity) and you may have given me a dose of courage to write about it.

  2. That's really great, Trista! I'm really glad that we can continue to inspire one another. I think it would be great for you too to talk to some recently married Catholic friends of ours. Let me know how it goes, and looking forward to seeing what you write about :)